When you decide that your happiness is dependent on someone, you very probably are actually deciding to be unhappy. That’s why I say, if you don’t have time to waste being sad and wasted, don’t look for a relationship deliberately. Let the right person come to you, one who will stay while you try to work your ass off and focus on your career, one you wouldn’t have to chase after to get him, one who would simply be the best person to come along.
Dating might appear beautiful and slippery, but remember the anxiety when you lurk and overthink about ur crush, remember the rollercoaster of emotions, remember the disappointment. If u can just talk to people and share love, give less f**ks, not worry about stuff this way and just live, if u can do that life would be easier.
You don’t need a lover to love, you don’t need another person to make you happy.
A good healthy life is through a strong mind. It’s the perspective and idea, its the vibe your mood vibrates in. Its a decision. Being happy is a decision. And my love, finding your happiness in someone else is a distraction.
